I notice sometimes names escape me.
I’m not referring to a gradual onset of forgetfulness or dementia (I hope) but rather to certain names. Why is that?
At work there are a few people who, every time I meet them I struggle to recall their name. Other people I know less well I have no problem recalling their name, but for some reason it escapes me for a few. Then I notice I can’t remember, so that next time I see them approaching I’m already thinking ‘I can’t remember your name’… and so I can’t.
But it’s not just people. I was listening to some music today in the car and a particular band came on from my playlist. A band I like. A band I listen to on occasion. But I can never recall the names of the tracks. I don’t have the problem with other music, just some. Why is that?
Actors and actresses too. Some, no matter how good their performance or regardless of the quality of the film, I simply can’t put a name to the face.
Maybe it’s about connection? Emotional or otherwise?
What makes us selectively ‘forget’? And what holds us in that pattern?