You’re not the mistake you made.
You’re not the failure of your most recent project.
You’re not the loss of your job.
You’re not that indulgence you should have resisted.
You’re not the disappointment at not having come first.
You’re not that missed deadline or average result.
You’re not your success, your fame, your glowing reputation, either.
You’re not the letters after your name, your job title, your exam results, your qualifications, your place in the organisational hierarchy.
You’re not your bank balance, your debt, your smart suit, that designer frock, your car, your house.
You’re not your ability, or your disability.
You’re not your weight, your muscles, your illness, that blemish.
You’re not your happiness, your sadness, your rage, your shame, your dream.
How could you be any of these, given that any of them are liable to change at any time?
Any of them.
These things are all a blink in the timeline of your life.
It’s a huge misunderstanding of what humans being are, and one that your inner critic can go wild upon. That voice can be demanding that you fix, or change, or hide, or be ashamed of these things. Or that you hold on ever so tight to what you’ve got, for fear of losing it, and what it represents.
You are not your circumstance.
Perhaps there is a new kind of freedom you can find from knowing this? A new kind of acceptance of the transience of the world, and a new recognition of your own strength and constancy, a new discovery of your essence, your soul… a new kind of hope.
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