For all we know about the world, its solar systems, its solids and gases and liquids, its states and orbits and atmospheres, its stars and planets and moons. For all we know about the Earth, its rivers and mountains and continents, its seas and oceans and lakes, its cities and people and landscapes, its cultures and societies and languages… we know nothing.
Everyone has their own world, their own reality, their own truth. Created from their own experience. Made up of patterns and meaning and connections. Motivated by values, purpose and beliefs. Driven by feelings, emotions and thoughts. Held in pictures and sounds and senses. Motivated by ego, desire and love.
Every world unique.
We struggle to understand our own personal world, let alone that of our neighbour, our colleague, our friend, our human cousin.
We know nothing.
If I asked you to draw a picture. A picture which portrayed the act of making tea. The intent being to communicate the process. What would you draw?
You might depict a kettle boiling. You might draw a teapot. Water pouring into the teapot. You might sketch a teabag or you might show a tea strainer. Maybe a cup and saucer, or a mug. You might have a jug of milk, or a bowl of sugar. Maybe even a biscuit being dunked?
But would you draw tea plants being dunked in hot bubbling geysers? Would you show a cocktail shaker being vigorously oscillated with its tea and water contents? Would the teabag be shaped like a rubber ring stretched over the cup so that the water could pour through, into the cup? Probably not.
Now it might well be that the tea making process has been honed. Improved beyond improvement. Maybe the teabag or the teapot and strainer are supremely efficient and effective. Maybe putting the tea into the water is the most practical method, rather than pouring the water slowly through the tea? But we probably thought we had it all worked out, for many centuries before the teabag was invented. Now we have at least three shapes of bag in the world.
Day to day, in everyday ways, we are constrained in our thinking by our knowledge. By historical experience. By custom. It makes us lazy. Deprives us of imagination and true creativity. Diminishes our ability to think divergently. It denies us new choice.
What are you doing right now, which you simply take for granted?
It is the way it has always been.
Instead, learn to unlearn. Learn to experiment. Especially in the way you live. The way you come to the world. The way you are.
Try breaking away from the constraints of what you know.
Maybe not knowing, will grant you a new freedom?