I was struck the other day by two meanings for the word judgement.
In a meeting we were lamenting the loss of a capability to make judgement calls. The ability to hold uncertainty. How rules, laws, policies etc have made us over sensitive to getting it wrong. What’s the ‘right way?’ we ask. Our risk averse nature in an essentially critical world would seem to make the art of judgement a difficult tool to handle.
In a separate conversation we were discussing the dangers of judgement. The judgement we all make about other people and about ourselves. The way, in an increasingly diverse and inclusive world, we still jump to conclusions about people and equally get stuck in our own patterns of judgement about ourselves.
Wanting greater judgement, yet at the same time challenging its use.
I looked to the dictionary. The relevant definitions are “the ability to make considered decisions or come to sensible conclusions” or “an opinion or conclusion”
Perhaps that’s the point? One misses the ‘considered’ or ‘sensible’. Jumping to an opinion or conclusion without considering alternative perspectives, without seeking to explode well worn patterns and subjectivity?
Judging ourselves and judging others casts a shadow over our lives.
It strikes me, we need to get better at this, as human beings.