There was a story the other week about two guys who spend their time topping up expired car park tickets using their own money. They spend £60 of their own money each week.
Doing something kind for someone makes you feel good.
But it seems there’s a science to it.
Scientists have long known that the hormone oxytocin plays essential physiological roles during birth and lactation with mother and baby bonding. Animal studies have shown that oxytocin can influence behavior too, prompting voles to cuddle up with their mates, for example, or to clean and comfort their pups. Now a raft of new research in humans suggests that oxytocin underlies the twin emotional pillars of civilized life, our capacity to feel empathy and trust.
I held my umbrella over someone’s head whilst the drizzle fell earlier today.
Kind, I thought.
So give it a go. Don’t wait for the official day, do something randomly kind now. Get a shot of warmth. Hormonally dose up on your oxytocin.